Struggling to
Say What You
Truly Want in
Bed—or in Love?
Your desires aren’t wrong.
Your shame isn’t permanent.
And your deepest intimacy is
possible..
—even if you’ve never felt
safe enough to ask for it.
~ Nsharâh Feels
You’ve tried therapy. You’ve read the books.
But still, that voice whispers...
What if this doesn’t work? Maybe I’m just bad at
this relationship stuff.
It might feel hopeless, but you CAN heal old
wounds and re-learn how to have BETTER
relationships.
I did...It wasn’t pretty.
I can teach you HOW to do the same.
Is that “situationship”
enough for you?
You will be shocked, I’m sure of it!
Get a free 15 min consult
I help women and men create emotionally and erotically fulfilling relationships—with themselves and their partner(s).
Here’s the deal…relationships can be amazing..and also disastrous..
It’s easy to think a new partner might solve everything but the truth is,
“ a new partner will not erase old pattern”
Those challenges live ‘rent free’ in your body triggering you again and again.
And that’s where this work comes in.
We identify your patterns, slowly and safely rewire them, and teach your nervous system a new way to love—without the same emotional chaos. You’ll connect with yourself, attune to your desires, and build the kind of relationships that actually feels good. I promise.
Hey, I’m Nsharâh Feels
Your Body Already Knows How to Heal
Somatic coaching isn’t about talking around your pain—it’s about unlocking the wisdom in your nervous system.
Imagine:
- Waking up excited to connect, not anxious about ‘messing up’
- Confidence to set boundaries that deepen intimacy, not push people away
- Laughing freely during sex because shame no longer owns you
This isn’t theory.
My clients move from ‘I’m broken’ to ‘I’m free’ in 12 weeks—with tools that work even if you’ve felt stuck for years.
Get a free 15 min consult
Client Transformation
Sarah, a busy entrepreneur, went
from feeling disconnected to
building a profoundly fulfilling
relationship with her partner.
Alex, a young artist, discovered how to
express his desires confidently and
authentically, leading to more meaningful
connections.
Emily, transformed her relationship by embracing vulnerability and open communication to build a deeply fulfilling connection with her partner.
What if you could:
Speak your desires without fear of judgment?
Feel truly seen by your partner—not just ‘good enough’?
Turn conflict into connection, even when it feels impossible?
Get a free 15 min consult
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Certified Coaching
Client Agreement +
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Statement
Confidentiality guaranteed
Your client journey
starts with...
Client Joy
“My first ATF Intimacy session with
Nsharâh was eye-opening . His insightful
guidance and compassionate approach
made me feel truly seen and empowered”
“My first ATF Intimacy session with Nsharah was
like a relaxed safe, heart and eye-opening chat
between friends. Through our conversations I was
able to examine and bring to light some of my
subconscious programming which allowed for
greater self-acceptance and empowerment to
change the things I wish to change. Already looking
forward to our next session”
My first ATF Intimacy session was
absolutely wonderful. I felt so comfortable
and at ease. Nsharah was open and honest
from beginning to end about his purpose
and how we’d work together.
Get a free 15 min consult
Hear raw, anonymous stories from men who’ve broken free from
emotional numbness and reveal how they navigate their most
intimate relationships.
I get it, it’s not easy! i’m here
when you’re ready.
‘Why Didn’t
Anyone Teach Us
This?!’
Join 1,000+ listeners who finally
understand their partners (and
themselves) after hearing real
stories—not Instagram-perfect lies.
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‘Wait—men actually
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Client Joy
“After regular sessions with Nsharâh I definitely feel more confident and have released much of the childhood shame I was carrying. I felt completely safe in his presence and was able to delve into my deepest fears around sexuality. I'm forever grateful for the changes that have taken place in me, due in large part to his ability to listen deeply, and the ideas he helped me formulate to accelerate my own healing”
“I’ve had several sessions with Nsharah to explore
my feelings more deeply. I feel more connected to
myself than I have in years, which is improving
intimacy between me and my partner.
Thank you, Nsharah!”
“My session with Nsharâh took me a step closer to grounding myself in my femininity. I was guided, honoured and protected during our exercises and I left with a higher sense of exploring my wants and needs in a way that works for me.
Thank you Nsharâh, I'm forever grateful for holding space for this”